I agree with your sentiments, but isn't it premature to label Winter as a hard ass authoritarian?
What has Winter done that would discourage players from coming here?
Cann walked off the team (because of issues with previous management no less) so Winter made him apologize, and rightfully so. Some managers wouldn't have even taken a player back if they left the club while under contract.
Winter handled the DeRo controversy as well as can be expected considering that he inherited the situation.
DeRo and Cann were allegedly lied to and mistreated by the former regime, not the current regime.
Now Winter has tried to deflect attention from the players and shield them from unnecessary media scrutiny (because as you say, it's Hollywood North up here), he's overruled by the commissioner, and will be forced to adhere to a questionable MLS guideline.
So far, I have actually been quite impressed with the caliber of players that Winter and Mariner have brought in, and I don't expect that to change anytime soon because of this story or the fact that two players signed contracts they weren't happy with and were outspoken about their discontent.